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Wednesday, March 16, 2011

How Can I Make My Lover Fall In Love Again - Find Out How To Get The Spark Back In Your Relationship

You may feel like the love between you has cooled or faded and things have become boring or routine. You know there is more to your relationship than this and you want to bring the spark back, you want your partner to love you more than they seem to right now. So how do you make your lover fall in love again? How do you get your lover to love you more?

It may seem sometimes as if it was impossible, but I can tell you that it is not. You can bring back that loving feeling and fan the flame of love bright again.

Remember when you two first met and fell in love? If you can find out why you fell in love in the beginning and what attracted your partner to you then, you will know how to make them love you again.

Asking your partner, "Why do you love me?" is not the way to find out. Ask anyone who loves another person, like my husband has said to me on many occasions, "I just flat-out love you, I cannot tell you why because I don't know why, all I know is that I do."

The real reason someone falls in love with someone else is because of the way that person makes them feel when they are with them. The way to find out how your partner felt back then when they were first with you, is to ask them what you made them feel like especially when they began to fall for you.

My man says it is the way he feels when he sees the love in my eyes for him, he feels so wanted and valued. Perhaps you made your guy feel like he was the sexiest man alive, or your girl was the most cherished woman on earth. Whatever way you made them feel about themselves tells you that they felt good about themselves because of it and therefore is something that you can recreate.

When you know how to make your lover feel good and what makes them happy, you have discovered the way to keep them falling in love with you, and it is as simple as remembering to fill that need for them.

Even though people change through different experiences they stay the same in their need for that special connection with you, it is like their landmark or their lighthouse. Once you know how to make your partner feel better about him or herself, you have a precious gift that only you can give them, because you are unique and no-one can love them in exactly the same way you do.

So why not give it a go. Ask your partner how you made them feel when you first began dating and especially when you began to fall for each other. Once you know the answer to your question you have the template to make them fall in love again every day for the rest of your lives. You won't need to ask "why do you love me" because you will know; deep in your heart you will have your answer.

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